Ms. Dreamy is afraid of making decisions.. seriously..
To make a decision, usually there're two options to choose, either you pick it, or you drop it.. then you have to weigh the outcomes of both options, how much you gain and loss for each option, whether u can afford the loss if not picking it, or the regret for dropping it.. you cannot avoid hesitating, you afraid of making wrong decision, which might make you regret for life. You keep imagine the possible outcomes if you make that decision, but the truth is u can never see the outcome, only after you have made that decision..
You would like to make a decision according to your heart, let say to pick it, but your brain will regulate your thoughts, reminding you the rationality should against emotion..you are struggling.. However, there reach the time for you to decide, no matter what, just have to make a decision.
After that, regardless of what decision you have made, there's definitely a sense of 'loss' following it, maybe not right immediate, but one day it will come.. what you can do is to keep convincing yourself, don't regret.. Because no matter what decision you have made, there are only two outcomes, either you regret for making that decision, or you regret for not making that decision.. So, what for to regret?? that will be endless...
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Making decision
Posted by Your Angel at 4:07 PM
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